Mike -
While I'm with you on the concept that the church needs to embrace technology in general and, more specifically, the Internet in order to reach out to the ever-changing world both outside and inside the church, there has to be some direction and stewardship to it all. Should we play gansta rap during worship because a portion of the world's youth are drawn to that? Ain't gonna happen, but your broad argument would include that approach as well. Yes, the Internet is a new mission field, but we must approach it in a Christian manner, not a worldly one.
As far as differing opinions with leadership and the expression thereof, there is a right place and a wrong place for that. Disagreements will happen - that's a fact born out of our fallen nature. But what should take center stage - the disagreement or God? By its very nature, the disagreement depends upon a focus on self and the more time and energy spent focusing on it, the less time and energy is given to God. If a person has a beef with the leadership, should they leap up in the middle of worship service and chainsaw open the can of worms for everyone to weigh in on? If you think that's okay, I'll not be planning to worship at your church, if you don't mind. In a similar fashion, an unmoderated discussion of church matters on a church sponsored site that airs all the dirty laundry in a church's hamper is only going to stir up division and pretty much guarantees those seeking a place where God hangs out will look elsewhere. I imagine worldly folk will gladly join into the fray, spicing things up with more "No, ME!" dialogue, but it's just not going to show God to the world. As I read the Bible, I don't see God championing free speech. I do see Him promoting edifying speech, encouraging speech, Gospel sharing speech.
Leadership does need accountability or they will lose touch with those they lead and the God they're supposed to follow. I left a church recently when, as a leader myself, I learned the vast majority of the leaders would not change course while admitting they had erred against a Scriptural mandate. Though a minor point, when combined with a general trend toward laziness about discipline, my wife and I could no longer effectively worship there. Should the congregation, in their ignorance of the machinery of the leadership, be turned upside down and likely broken in two by our publically voicing our beef? I don't see that bringing glory to God or helping them strengthen their relationship with Him. Instead, we alerted key people who are watching and nudging where they can while the leaders lumber slowly back on track.
I've been on both sides of this discussion in real time and have found that a cautious inclusion of the Internet is the wisest course. Most congregations, regardless of their worship style or denominational affiliation, are still operating on a 50's mindset and don't know how to harness the power of these new technologies without these technologies harnessing them. Thnings are improving, though.
Honored to Serve for Him - Tom ('Mas) Pickering <)><